7 Ways to have GREAT Phone Sex

Help your Phone Sex Playmate help YOU have a great time!

SweetSouthernEmma (7)Phone sex is a very unique and intimate conversation between two people that just want to have fun. What I have found over the years is everyone’s take on what makes a good phone sex call is a little different. Certainly what they want from a phone sex call is not different at all – a “safe happy ending” exemplified! There is very little better than a good “cum” with no strings attached.

Phone sex can either be AMAZING, good, mediocre or absolutely horrible. The question is how do you make it amazing more often than not! To answer that, I have created a “primer” on what I feel helps build a great phone sex relationship. I happen to love what I do and want so much to please you. These are some of the ways I think we can make that happen.

1.  The Telephone – After all this is “phone” sex. Try to use a land line when possible with a quality hands free microphone. If that isn’t possible, then a cell phone with a Bluetooth works, but make sure it is a good one. There is nothing worse than a conversation where every other sentence is “I’m sorry, can you say that again please?”Sweet Southern Emma - Telephone

Try to keep your microphone close to your mouth, but don’t smother it. To know for sure if we have a good connection, I usually ask when we first start talking if our connection is OK. If it isn’t I want to know! Usually it is bad service area or a defective microphone that creates the problem.   A bad connection makes for a bad call! Also, if at all possible, turning off call waiting is a great idea!  I am on a land line 99.9% of the time, but if you have a problem hearing me, or the connection is muffled, PLEASE let me know.  A clear crisp conversation makes for GREAT PHONE SEX!

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2.  The Environment – Find someplace that you can get comfortable and won’t be distracted. Have your favorite beverage with you and of course your “toys” if you use them. Keep a bottle of lube handy and towels or baby wipes to clean up. Being prepared for the call makes it a better experience all around.

3.  Relax – Please don’t be nervous even if it is your first call. The nice thing about phone sex is that it “really is all about you”. My desire is to please you.  I want to build a fun relationship with you.  I want to give you the experience that you are looking for.

There is no reason to be nervous or embarrassed, even about the most “taboo” or “out there” fantasy. It is a fantasy and it is highly unlikely that you are going to shock me. Besides, to be honest, the nastier or more out there you get, the better I like it and I mean that.

4.  Start the Call Off Right – This is probably one of the most important ways to have GREAT phone sex.  I know you are paying for the call by the minute, but I guarantee you that your experience with any PSO and especially me will be 100 times better if you take a minute or two introduce yourself and talk about the kinds of thing that interest you and also what DOESN’T interest you.  I have a delightful “think on my feet” kind of imagination and I take my lead from you. It is a lot easier to please you when I know what you like and don’t like. If you said something like “I am into forced sex but definitely not into age play or men or xyz….” it gives me a reference point to work my magic from. It also helps to know the kind of “attitude” I should have during the call… resistant or “bring it on baby” …giggle… or whatever works for your scenario.

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If you would rather not say what you are not “into” because you want me to take you places you may not have gone before, that’s fine, but if I cross the line into “euwwww yuuuck”… TELL ME… please don’t just get disgusted and hang up. This is definitely a “different strokes for different folks” kind of business! Remember, I WANT to please you and will do my very best, but I can’t read your mind! Also, feel free to ask me ANY questions at all about ANYTHING!  If there is a topic you want to discuss and want to know if I am “into” it, just ask. If it is not my cup of tea, I promise I will tell you!  Email always works as well if you want to set up a role play or give me ideas about what you like and don’t like prior to our conversation.

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5.  Special Needs – If you have anything that may pose an issue for you please let me know. One of my callers wears a hearing aid and when I am “over the top orgasmic” I get kind of loud. It hurts his ears when I do that and he let me know that which I appreciated very much. Those are the kinds of things I need to know so you will have a pleasant “over the top experience!”

6.  Ending the Call – Unfortunately all good things must come to an end sometime.  When our call has come to an end, if at all possible… please do your best to say goodbye. Please don’t just hang up if you can avoid it. Please let me know how you felt about the call, GOOD OR BAD! Feedback is ALWAYS appreciated. It is how I know what works for you!

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If you are interrupted and need to hang up abruptly, I get it! Trust me. Sometime I hear the garage door go up and then “click”. It happens – you’re interrupted! A nice thing to do would be to send me an email to let me know you were interrupted. That settles my mind so I don’t think that the phone service cut you off or you were unhappy!   I also understand the “I just can’t talk anymore, I want to enjoy my orgasm” kind of “click”.  Once again, if that happens, please let me know.  It sets my mind at ease.  I am glad you enjoyed yourself that much, I just want to know that is what happened!  The reason for all this is because I CARE!

If you were cut off, please let me know. That is such a “buzz kill” when that happens. I am happy to send you some free minutes (if we are on Niteflirt) or extend a private call at no charge to get us back in the mood! Unfortunately at this time I don’t have that ability on My Phone Site, so it if happens, I will send you something “free” to make up for your inconvenience!


Sweet Southern Emma - fun7.  Just Have Fun – Once again I do love what I do and I want to have fun with you! I will do everything in my power to make that happen. Thanks for taking the time to read this to help us have an AMAZING PHONE SEX experience!

ADDITIONAL THOUGHTS ADDED FROM MY CALLERS:  (Thank you so much for your input!)

“I feel that in order to have great phone sex, you have to be a giver as well as a receiver.  The agent that you speak with will be more responsive the more involved you get in the conversation.  It also pays to send a message giving a basic outline of the conversation before the call to put you and the agent on the same page.  You have to effectively articulate what you want, the way you want it and how you want to start and finish.”  CD  (Thank you so much for that C. D. it is soooo true!)